A Map of Ruariam

Categories Introducing


Verbs describe states of being, actions, events and situations that convey relations between things. Simply put, Ruariam.com conveys the relations between the world and I.

The site explores 5 themes: Adorning, Being, Expressing, Exploring and Indulging. Within the categories there will be things I did, things I do, things I am doing and things I will continue do. I chose verbs in their present participle form as a symbol of this continuity. I realise that I will never exist as a finite object. My possibilities are limitless and I am constantly evolving.

Hair, Beauty & Style

Fashion is something that is close to my heart. I believe style transcends designer labels and conventional standards of beauty. You only live once so I intend to use this time to be as experimental as I want to be. Stay tuned for outfit ideas, skincare routines and recommendations on make-up products I swear by.


Personal essays on life and learning

I aim to make this the most personal part of the blog where I’ll share hopes, dreams, fears, struggles and triumphs.



Writing allows me to express myself, to represent realities, to tell stories and to dream of a better world. I write for myself. I write for myself in the sense that I that write what I want to read. I write about girls like me for girls like me.

Expect thoughts on social issues, people, attitudes and whatever else happens to be on my mind that I feel passionate about.



I love languages and I love to travel. I hope to a get a chance to do some more traveling in the future. Here, i’ll share these experiences with you. From images of the few places I’ve been, things I’ve discovered and my reflections on those adventures.



I am a foodie. I love to cook and I love to eat. I’ll be sharing a few recipes with you and tips on how to eat well on a budget.


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15 thoughts on “A Map of Ruariam

  1. You are such an inspiration to me Ruvimbo. You are beautiful inside and out daughter; above all you are adorable. Wish you the best in all your endeavours. Happy birthday 🎉. love you lots

  2. My heart is magnified reading this. Ruariam is beautiful and I look forward to revisiting often. I wish you enough, of everything you need to continue creating. Godspeed. Xo

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